Never fall for flattering and sweet words

Those who gave you flattering and sweet words are those who just wanted to look at you from the outside beauty not the inside beauty...
Falling for those flattering and sweet words is like falling into a trap of spider webs of lies...
All they want is your body to be used for their pleasure...
Honesty is not always a strong suit for all men/women...
Trust your instincts...
Pay attention to red flags...

Being a cougar in dating!

Being a cougar in dating could be fun but also could be disastrous.
It's fun to be appreciated by a younger admirer.
It's nice to be  appreciated by a younger admirer.
They are all sincere and devoted if  they are really into you.
How could it be disastrous?
I understand when they say being wise comes with ages.
It is true... being young comes with inexperience.
And I understand why my dear friend said your being a sexy cougar can hurt the young admirer so deeply.
My infamous giggles didn't help...but I couldn't help it...
I have had way too much fun teasing than really into giving it...

A player or not a player?

How many dates can one belong to another to be able to stamp another person as a player?
I found myself being called a player on a first date.
I thought to myself unless you are in a committed relationship then you are strictly monogamous even then if you are in an open relationship, you can have more than one partner.
I don't belong to anyone. I haven't chosen anyone to be my significant other.
I have the right to choose and go with anyone I want to.
I can still find myself make contacts to other people while I am choosing the one to be my significant other.
Why would someone who didn't even make me feel like kissing called me a player?

Dating in the modern time

For some reasons, it seems online dating is like a game to me.

Why?

I found myself liking the person I looked at in his profile.

With a mutual agreement, we both met.

First impression is so important.

First few seconds of the meeting, I could tell whether I could go on to the next date or not without having to talk to him.

Am I too picky or is it just the instinct one has when you are older?

Broken heart

The shattering of a heart when being broken is the loudest quiet ever. --Carroll Bryant

Love is...

Love is harder to find when you are older but it is there and it will find you again when you are ready to receive it. My whole life I felt I have been looking for that love the one I have always envisioned in my mind but I haven't seen it all yet. But I know each time love finds you, you would have experienced something like this.

The cycle starts...

New love is always an exciting experience.

In love is always an amazing experience.

Breakup is always a heartache experience.

And the cycle ends until the next wave of love comes again...

More than once friends of mine reminds me that you always have you to love....

It's true... I am always in love with myself...

Some people said to me "You are so vain!"...

It took me a while to understand... It's so not true...

It's nothing wrong with loving yourself first...

It's nothing wrong with being who you are and what you are as long as you love who you are and what you are...

My dear friend just reminded me "to love Bang" ... 

So for you... is to love yourself...

And for me... is to love myself...

And for other love, dear love please spare my heart for a little while ...